By: Cecil McIntosh
In my private practice for over 14 years no matter what my clients have come to see me about, there has always been an issue about a better relationship.
Here are 7 of the most common misconceptions my clients have related to me about having a better relationship. These misconceptions are followed by my perspective on each one of them.
Myth 1: I have to love everything about my partner.
Reality Check 1: You were born pure and pristine. You then learnt behaviors from your parents, teacher, coaches, church etc. (who did their best to teach you about a better relationship). These behaviors have become the backbone for your way of living and having a better relationship.
Perhaps a common behavior that irritates having a better relationship would be leaving the toilet seat up after use. This is merely a behavior and not the essence of the person. However, when you may consider this behavior to be the person, this destroys the concept of a better relationship, creating all kinds of conflict in your need for a better relationship.
Myth 2: Love means that I can fix your partner.
Reality Check 2: You met your partner because of some special quality or charteristic that you admired. You need to accept and allow that quality to flourish in order to allow you and your partner to grow into a better relationship.
You may be unaware that you do not even like yourself. Yet by allowing your partner to grow and expand, you will experience the quality of your partner and the beauty within you, as you begin to enjoy a better relationship.
Myth 3: I am supposed to give up the things I like in order to be in a better relationship.
Reality Check 3: Giving up the things you like to be in a better relationship is like take a knife and cutting away a part of yourself. Your better relationship is based on the uniqueness of you and your partner.
When you give up your uniqueness you rob yourself of a better relationship, your passion and your partner of your creativity.
Myth 4: I will be rescued by a knight in shining armor.
Reality Check 4: You may have been conditioned to live your life expecting someone to take care of you. What happens if that person becomes ill, and is no longer able to take care of you?
Your responsibility in creating a better relationship, is to bring your passion to the table of your relationship. Some days you will be the knight in shining armour and another day your partner will be the knight in shining armour of a better relationship.
You will each get a chance to shine like star in a better relationship because of your strengths and weaknesses.
Myth 5: It costs a lot to be in a relationship.
Reality Check 5: In a material context, a better relationship can be expensive if you think that love is based on the bigger house, car or boat. Although some of these material assets are necessary, they should not be at the expense of creating a better relationship.
Love is creating a better relationship by building a relationship that is based on the simple things in life, like walking and holding hands, going on a picnic (just the two of you), or sharing an ice cream.
Love in a better relationship is not about what you show on the outside but what you express in you heart. Love is not about money or materialism, love just is.
Myth 6: Love in a relationship is or is not a feeling.
Reality Check 6: It is not what you say, it is what you do. You can say, “I love you” which may be merely words and no feelings (action). Love is the action of doing.
If you make a cup of tea for yourself, (the water is boiled), make a cup of tea for your partner. Whether your partner wants the tea or not is irrelevant, it is the thought that counts and the action that cements a better relationship.
Myth 7: I don’t have to work at my relationship.
Reality Check 7: As a child, you learned to creep before you walked. Then you learned the letters of the alphabet. In order to write, you had to learn how to put those letters together to make words and sentences. These sentences then become the way in which you communicated.
When you and your partner stop communicating after learning how to use the letters of the alphabet in sentences, it’s like 2 tape recorders talking to each other – Nobody is at home to enjoy a better relationship.
In summary:
1. Your partner’s behavior in a better relationship is not your partner’s true essence.
2. There is no need to have a clone of yourself. A better relationship requires some variety.
3. Giving up of your uniqueness to be in a better relationship is like throwing out the baby with the bath water.
4. In a better relationship, there are no superior partners, just equal partners.
5. Love in creating a better relationship is not about money and the material assets (although there are important) but the simple things in life.
6. Love in a better relationship is active not passive.
7. Lack of communication crushes your desire for a better relationship.
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By: Natalie Aranda
Flowers are simply amazing because of their beauty, their grace, and the amazing impact they have on most women. Since receiving flowers is most women’s dream, regardless of how many times they have received them, men should know what flowers to give their girlfriends on different occasions throughout the year.
Yes, that is right, flowers should be given throughout the year and not just reserved for Valentine’s Day. The reason for this is when women receive flowers they feel special, and if you are giving flowers for a special occasion then making your girlfriend feel extra special is very important. Also, flowers may be given for no reason at all and this will certainly make your girlfriend feel as if she has the most amazing boyfriend ever.
Girlfriend’s Birthday
Your girlfriend’s birthday is right around the corner or worse yet today, and you are searching for the perfect gift. However, the best gift you can give is the gift of flowers and fortunately no matter how serious your relationship with your girlfriend there are many types of flowers that are appropriate and will help you take your relationship to the next level.
The reason why is because flowers are powerful and women are enchanted by them. Women love to tell other women they received flowers, it shows their boyfriend is confident, really interested in them and cares for them no matter what flower is given. Although, there are some flowers that are especially great birthday gifts.
For example, honeysuckle is a good birthday gift because it symbolizes happiness. Carnations in red symbolize passion and pink symbolize your girlfriend is always on your mind, so either choice is a great choice. Gerber daisies and wildflowers are both great selections because they are beautiful, bright, and are not interpreted as “coming on too strong” if the relationship is new.
Girlfriend’s Graduation
Your girlfriend may be graduating from high school, college, or an advanced degree program, but regardless of the degree she is receiving, she will love to receive flowers. This shows not only that you are proud of her, but also that you care enough about her to buy flowers that are appropriate for this special occasion.
For example, for your girlfriend’s graduation forget-me-nots are great choices because they represent true love as well as memories. Caladiums are good choices as well because they represent delight and joy while white carnations signify good luck and sweetness. Of course, pink flowers stand for happiness and graduation is a happy occasion and a perfect reason to give your girlfriend pink roses.
Valentine’s Day
Red roses are the best flowers for Valentine’s Day and the type of flowers most women want to receive on this special day. The relationship you have with your girlfriend may affect the color of roses you buy, however. Red roses should be reserved for longer relationships where the couple is passionately in love. Pink roses are appropriate for a newer relationship because they symbolize the relationship and happiness, but do not put any pressure on the girl regarding your feelings other than to let her know you really like her.
Any other color of rose is appropriate as well, especially if your girlfriend is passionate about a certain color. Primrose is another good flower choice to give your girlfriend on Valentine’s Day because it is in essence saying you cannot live without her; the exact sentiment you want to express on the day of love. Carnations are also appropriate and the color you choose should represent your feelings. Red signifies passion, pink that she is on your mind and white sweetness. The orchid signifies thoughtfulness and charm.
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By: Elly
We perused the internet and our own ever expanding dream dictionary, to find some common dreams. Here below are 10 of the most common dreams we have while deep asleep. How many have you had?
1. Nudity – Being naked is an obvious symbol of being exposed or being vulnerable in public. If you see someone else naked in your dream, it means that you’ve discovered the “naked truth” about someone or something.
2. Falling – Falling, or flying, has to do with freedom and weightlessness. If you are falling in your dreams and you are unafraid, then it means you’re going to overcome the troubles in your life with ease. If you are afraid, then it means you are feeling overwhelmed.
3. Dying – Death, like in the Tarot, does not mean the end of all things. Instead, it means rebirth, the end of one thing and the beginning of another. The death of a loved one in your dreams is symbolic of remembrance and guilt; the death of yourself lends the idea that you’re trying to become a new person.
4. Accident – If you dream you’re in an accident, chances are good that you’re feeling pent-up guilt over something that you’re unconsciously punishing yourself for. Did you cause the accident? Did someone hit you? It might mean that you’re “driving yourself” too hard, or that you’re afraid someone is trying to sabotage you.
5. Chase – Being chased is mostly an indication of worry. You may be trying to get away from something you feel is insurmountable. Being chased is also sign of some kind of insecurity or fear. It’s a signal from your subconscious to live up to your responsibilities.
6. Running – Running denotes avoidance. If you’re running in your dreams, you might be trying to flee an issue that you are having trouble with confronting.
7. Sex – Sex usually symbolizes completion on both a physical and spiritual level. It’s a feeling of wholeness. If it’s sex in public, it might mean that you’re not afraid to show who you are, all of you, and all that you can be.
Snow – Snow is symbolic of innocence and emotions as well. Seeing snow falling represents a new start and a clean slate. Seeing snow melting means that you’re letting go of your emotions and fears.
8. Test – For anyone, tests are nightmares. If you find yourself taking a test in your dream, you’re probably feeling pressured or scrutinized. Failing or passing the test is also symbolic to how you feel you’re measuring up to those around you.
9. Trips – Dreaming that you’re going on a trip or vacation is symbolic of your need to get away and have some fun. You probably feel stressed and know that you need to let go of your worries.
10. Losing Someone – These dreams generally denote that you’ve lost an opportunity or a relationship. If you lose someone in a crowd of people, then you might not be understanding them.
As you can see, a lot of things are not as scary as they might seem. Keep track of your dreams, and find out if you have reoccurring situations, or call one of our readers today to have a personalized interpretation!
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By: Elly
What is a lucid dream? Any dream where one becomes aware that they are dreaming is a lucid dream. Once the dreamer has realized they are in fact dreaming they may be able to control or manipulate their surroundings, rather than waking up from the dream.
Lucid dreams can be fantastical or reality based, they are usually quite vivid. A lucid dream can come on gradually as one realizes they are in a dream as it takes place, or when a dreamer lapses instantly from waking to dream state while conscious.
This is something that may happen to most people on occasion, or something one may seek out to participate in on purpose. There are many techniques in order to learn to purposely lucid dream. Working on the ability to recall one’s dreams is usually a step in the right directions.
One may want to start a dream journal, immediately after waking up one should document everything they can remember. This helps because recognizing the patterns of one’s dreams can help in recognizing them as such, and in turn being able to control the dream and surroundings.
Another way to figure out if one is dreaming while still within their dream is to do a “reality test.” Text can be very telling, look at some text from a book or website, and look away, when you look at it again, see if it has changed or moved, the same can be done with the time on a digital clock or watch.
Lucid dreaming is perfectly natural, and does not involve any spells, or “dark arts.”
There is nothing “occult” about lucid dreams; they are simply a part of the sleep cycle and dreams. The next time you think you might be in a dream, really take a look around and see if you are!
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By: Tammy
Aquarian women are known for their energetic personalities and eccentric beauty. The female water-bearers are instantly recognizable by their wide-set eyes; high foreheads and that extra ‘something special’ that makes them stand out the crowd. Their fashion style is often bohemian chic, but always glamorous like fellow Aquarian Jennifer Aniston. She is with out fail one of Hollywood’s most beautiful women thanks to her characteristic features and beautiful hair.
Jennifer is one of the biggest tress-setters. She’s mastered blunt bob, super-sleek strands and long layers. Her golden blonde highlights and long wavy layers look fantastic. Jennifer’s subtle beach waves and long layers with an off center, this feminine hairstyle adds softness and bounce complementing Aquarians’ distinctive features and personality perfectly. Long bangs can be paired with style to drawing even more attention to your eyes.
Jennifer Aniston’s new look for 2012 is a stunning medium length blunt bob. This super-sleek style is cut to sit under the jaw-line for easy maintenance and low-fuss styling. This simple yet sexy hair style is great for those with round face shapes and easy to maintain with regular trims. This style is known as “hairdresser’s little black dress.” It’s a classic and will always look great and trendy.
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By: Elly
Practicality is the hallmark of Capricorns; one thing seemed to be a recurring theme when I researched this topic: Earth signs, earth tones, no muss, and no fuss. While I am all for practicality and earth tones that doesn’t mean it has to be boring!
Capricorns tend to opt for a classic look, over something flashy and trendy (this is where I diverge from my sign.) for all you true Capricorns I’m going to do a sparkly neutral look that could easily transition from work to evening with a little added eyeliner and mascara.
Physically, Capricorns are known for having clear skin, narrow foreheads, wide smiles, deep-set eyes, dark hair, and prominent cheek bones. David Bowie and Annie Lennox are two notable Capricorns. Red lips with black or grey eye shadow will always be acceptable, but let’s do something different.
Start out with your regular foundation routine. For me, this is moisturizer, primer, then concealer and finally mineral powder. However if it’s the winter, or if you have an uneven skin tone, by all means use a good quality medium coverage liquid foundation.
Next up, eyes: Apply an eye shadow primer to the lids all the way up to the brow bone and underneath the eye (I used “Painterly” paint pot from MAC). This will not only prime the area and make your colors show truer, but it will also brighten the eye area.
Take your lightest shade, (“Chill” from MAC) this will be your highlighter, and apply it from lash line to brow bone, and on the inner corners of your eyes.
Take the medium shade, (“Sin” from Urban Decay) and sweep it in a windshield wiper motion into your crease. If your eyes do not have a crease, just place this where you’d like the illusion of one. Next, take your gold shade, (“Baked” from Urban Decay) and add it to the outer third of your eye lid, just on the outer corners and blend inward, darken the very outer corner with a warm brown color, (“Roach” from Urban Decay)
Don’t forget to blend your colors together so they appear to be a seamless gradient or wash of color as opposed to blocks or stripes. Once your eye shadow is blended to your liking, apply a basic black eyeliner close to the lash line.
Take a white or peach liner pencil (“I get no Kick” eye kohl from MAC) and line the lower lash line on the inside (this will make your eyes appear larger). Then, apply a coat or two of your favorite mascara. In the face chart, all the brands and colors are listed for easy reference.
To the apples of your cheeks (the fullest, roundest part in the middle of your cheek), apply a golden pink blush (“Pleasantry” from MAC.) To the tops of your cheeks apply a shimmery highlighter (“Chez Chez Lame” from MAC), and to the hollows (where you see shadows when you suck in your cheeks) very lightly apply bronzer to define the shape of your cheekbones (“Aztec” from RawColor).
For the lips, use a lip brush (for accuracy) and fill in (“23”rouge artist intense from Make Up Forever) top with (“Claire” from Buxom) lip gloss and you’re ready to go!
If you want to make this more of an evening look, apply a black shadow to the outer 1/3 of your eyes, and blend generously, finishing with a thick cat’s eye sweep of eye liner. Apply false lashes if you are going for an event or party, add a shade of lipstick one to two shades darker and you’re ready for a night out on the town.
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By: Elly
As the New Year approaches, it signals the feeling of turning over a new leaf, ensuring the coming year will be better than the last, and making a fresh start.
The key to keeping up with your resolutions is to keep them reasonable. Someone who has never set foot in a gym isn’t going to start going 5 times a week, every week. Just as this is a time to make new commitments about your physical health, it’s also a great time to consider your spiritual health.
Perhaps you want to try meditation, don’t be surprised if initially you have some trouble clearing your mind of ephemera. Practice will only help. Keep at it, and you’ll find over time it will become easier for you to become calm and clear.
Keeping your inner self healthy is going to help you in many other aspects of your life, especially if you want to improve your physical health. For example, working out isn’t as bad in reality as one can make it out to be. Sometimes you can talk yourself out of doing something before you’ve even had the chance to try.
By keeping yourself positive, and centered you’ll find that doing those chores and tasks that you once talked yourself out of, have now become effortless. Setting a schedule will also help, even if you don’t stick to it 100%, having a rough outline of your goals for the day, week, or month, will help keep those tasks off your mind because they have an allotted place and time.
Above all, be sure to meditate where you’re going to be comfortable and uninterrupted, even if you’re struggling with meditation itself, you’ll still get to relax in peace and quiet, while taking a respite from your day.
From all of us here at PsychicsForetell.com, have a safe and Happy New Year!
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By: Cyndi Seidler
What’s your vision of this holiday season? Creating a memorable holiday is like orchestrating a major production. There are people, props, and agendas involved. Appoint yourself as the producer and bring together the pieces to transform your vision into a reality.
Start a list of what activities would give you the most pleasure, and then decide what the main event(s) will be. Are you going to be throwing a party? Having a tree-trimming party? Doing charity work? Going on a light-gazing tour? You might need to do meal planning, party planning, travel planning, and/or gift planning.
Break down your holiday event(s) into action tasks. Set priorities and schedules of the activities that need to be carried out. It’s a good idea to keep all your planning information in a notebook binder. Put all your lists and information in this to use each year. Keep meal plans, special activity plans, party plans, gift ideas, holiday card lists, and travel details in the binder.
Get others involved. Delegate some of the tasks to family or close friends. After all, you’re the producer, and producers do their best when they have a team helping them with the production.
Another piece of the holiday production would probably include meal plans. Decide on the menus and stock up on food early. It’s even a good idea to prepare any food you can in advance. Or, maybe you may want to let someone else cook for you and have your meal catered? If you have helpers, designate a “desert team” to do the holiday baking.
No holiday production list is without a separate gift list. Get creative with gift-giving. Make a list of gift ideas that you can create yourself (or buy at affordable costs). Think of something memorable and personal, something useful, something consumable, something that grows, maybe some excursion experiences.
If you have some artistic abilities, make a drawing, put your song on a cassette tape, or write some prose and mount it. How about putting together some personal mementos, like an album of photo collections, or a memorable video?
Of course, if you have any gifts that need to be mailed, you must also be timely in shipping these out. With postal security, this is important in ensuring the gifts sent by mail arrive in time.
The same applies to getting holiday cards mailed out. Schedule this on your calendar so that they are received a week or two before the holiday. Now, a good producer is only as good as they can stay within a budget. So, establish a budget and be realistic on it.
It’s best to try and break down a budget for each activity. More too often, people resort to using credit cards for their spending needs. But try to adopt policy to do cash-spending. You won’t have to look back “after the fact” that you’re heavy in debt.
Decorating the home for the holidays is yet another part of the production that helps put people in the holiday spirit. You can even make a family event out of this. By the time the holiday events arrive, you just might be nominated to win the Holiday Awards!
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By Lulu Gleason
So now that we’ve gone through the passionate and sensual signs. It’s now time to introduce the more light-hearted playful ones of the zodiac. The Air sings are more about mental simulation and understanding themselves and others. They have vivid imaginations and are very interested in ‘mind and body’ connections. Air signs include Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius.
GEMINI: Fickle by nature and let’s just face it what Gemini doesn’t blow hot and cold signals? Mercury is the planet and just like the roman god it was named for, this sign is as far as you can get to straightforward and uncomplicated when it comes to their desires. There’s a duality in this sign and with the symbol of the twins this tends to mean they can have an inner conflict about their wants and desires. They like adventure, intrigue, and have been know to be risk takers especially in the bedroom. They avoid boredom like it was a dangerous plague so they have vast interests. Verbal communication is the master key when dealing with this bed fellow. So be witty and prepare to hear them tell you some things that will make your cheeks pink.
Women: An absolute tease! She’s flirty, seductive, and is always happy taking an active role in sex play. Talk dirty to this girl and you’ll be surprised by a few of her words back because this usually sets the mood for some hot freaky love in her opinion.
Men: The verbal tauter who is going to satisfy you. There’s a very strong imagination when he compliments you. This man likes to dive into interests and keeps the mood light and airy. Mentally simulate and tantalize this sign and you’ll see how far you can go with a man who has a duality of the twins in him
Lover’s Bonus: Go on a unique date, and when the mood arises just do it! Gemini’s are down for whatever whenever as long as they are stimulated intellectually. Laughter jokes and then finding pleasure in conversation are good ideas to have while sexing up your Gemini. There’s only one annoying habit most Gemini’s seem to have and that’s confusing insults with intimacy. For those of the weaker heart just ignore it it’s not intentional. Concentrate on the Gemini’s hands and arms. Lightly touch hands and fingers and make seductive patterns you’ll be sure to get a rise out of them. They are pretty tolerant of most things and expect a partner to be on the same wave length as them.
LIBRA: The natural partner who’s always so eager to please. Just something about this sign is so attractive mostly because there’s a wide variety of beauty connected to the scales. They have wide interests so they can pull up any type of topic to cater to their mates. There’s also a very fragile ego, so make sure you reassure and show appreciation to your Libra lover’s good taste. An easy sign to get along with and they tend to want to please their partners. Sex is an art so sexy time needs to be created in the right environment. This means beautiful things, exploring pleasures and flattery towards the scales is going to get you far.
Women: She’s a flirt, charming, and when she smiles, it will light up her entire face. She demands romance and attention to the seductive details. She’s in love with the idea of love and for that moment it’s you.
Men: The refined gentlemen who has an eye for beauty. They are good at balance so give and take is something he’s more than prepared to do in the bedroom. He’s turned on by the mental idea of sex more so then driven by lust.
Lover’s Bonus: The romance machine of the zodiac. The scales can mirror wants and desires to insure that their partner is satisfied but the more conventional turn-on’s are always a sure signal to go. It doesn’t take much to please Libra and their unpredictability when it involves some great sexy time. Always remember when dealing with the scales your dealing with the ladies and gentlemen of the zodiac so keep it classy. To set the mood light some candles and burn incents like lavender, jasmine, or rose.
AQUARIUS: One of the more unusual signs of the zodiac but that doesn’t mean things have to be crazy in the bedroom. Believe it or not it’s the idea of expressing whims and the daring to actually do it in the bedroom is what this sign is into. There really isn’t a very strong sex drive to an Aquarius, but given the chance to explore and simulate a partner, others get the impression that the desire is prominent. There’s a double standard to this sign simply because it has two ruling planets. Sometimes they can appear ridged, but open this sign up and you’ll be pleasantly surprised as to how flexible they really are. The water barer is futuristic and they tend to believe that passion has led the world into chaos. In their own relationships they try to right that balance.
Women: There’s always a conflict between desires and status quos. But if the doors of passion open up this lady will not disappoint. Most likely she’ll take lovers who are friends because it’s a compliment in her opinion. She’ll usually make the first move if she’s interested and up for just about anything so prepared for some surprises from her.
Men: He wants to share ideas, envision a better world, and direct eye contact to maintain a stimulating connection. He doesn’t like messy emotions and would prefer to keep sexuality free of constraints. He’s open to how people want to live out their sexuality but in his own he might not be as open about it as he would lead you to believe.
Lover’s Bonus: Being unconventional, spontaneous and having knowledge are a huge turn-on for this lover. This sign thrives in electrical energy so sexy time with the TV on with no noise, and the stereo playing your favorite songs is a good option. Have a plethora of books, videos or games ready because a major turn off is sameness. They like trying out unique places for love play and it would keep things interesting. At home try Tibetan incense, intense conversations about how life could be in the future while stroking the hands and wrists. You’ll see sparks fly.
Join me next time with our last blog posting with water signs.
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By: Lulu Gleason
So we’ve just discovered those hotly passionate signs of fire. Now let’s take a good look at the most lusty sensuous signs out there. Earth signs are very ‘feet on the ground’ types. Now this doesn’t mean there isn’t some simmering passion lurking here. There’s a sort of slower pace with these signs that seems to appeal to so many romantics. Earth signs are Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn.
TAURUS: Sensual, lusty and pretty simple. It’s going to be rather standard sex until the Bull is able to trust and open up. Challenge is written all over trying to get Taurus to do anything they don’t want to do. They tend to take their own sweet time about everything. Trust with them is something you prove over time based on your actions. There’s a real connection to the senses of touch and smell with this sign so don’t be stingy about where they can put their hands on you or be surprised when they try to catch your sent in the air.
Women: A classy lady who’s stubborn. They need a partner who is capable of keeping their interests as well as having both feet on the ground. She’s a bit set in her ways but appealing to her sense might be something to look forward to. Touch is magic to them, sensual kissing anything to be romantic is an absolute must.
Men: The manly man who’s mostly calm and in control. There is no mushy emotional side to this man. He is the ultimate rock who only expects the 4 things in life that keep him happy. Sex, food, money and security – fulfill these basic needs and he’ll stick around and show you how happy you’ve made him feel.
Lover’s bonus: The neck is a very sensitive place for Taurus so kissing, licking, and tenderly clutching the neck as you kiss is a major plus. Solid actions are huge here since Taurus aren’t one to directly say something if they’ve shown you the answers. Ex: if you ask ‘do you love me?’ a typical Taurus answer would be ‘I’m here, aren’t I?’. Try a little bit of light bondage toys like handcuffs. Think ‘ownership’ the thought and proof turns them on. Have foods like fruit, nuts, m&m’s, and granola available just in case your Bull gets hungry after they’ve fulfilled your pleasures.
VIRGO: Not one of the more sexed signs of the zodiac but there’s a deep intellect here. They have no issues talking about sex unlike the other earth signs mentioned. There’s need for a plan with this sign, mostly because they are aware of everything going on around them. There’s rules to follow here and regulations with how the mechanics of this works. This doesn’t mean there will be no period of sowing your wild oats but at the end of the day you’ll go back to order. As the symbol of the Virgin everyone assumes you keep yourself aloof to sexual matters. In fact it’s quite the opposite because you want a perfect type of union and as a Virgo there’s an appeal in the pursuit in finding that perfection. It’s a slow and sensual sex style once properly lit.
Women: She’s the prized woman who knows where everything is at home. There’s a love of the idea of seduction and once she’s ready to go be prepared for the lacy practical garments she’ll seduce you with once you’ve convinced her you are trustworthy.
Men: The perfectionist who doesn’t like crumbs in the bed. This lover will have everything planned out perfectly. He’s not one to initiate wild and crazy things into the bedroom but if it’s something you’ll enjoy he’ll be happy to oblige… as long as it’s not too messy.
Lover’s Bonus: You’ll need to be well groomed and avid about details in your surroundings. There’s a sense of rich meaningful sex ahead but you’ve got to prove you’re trustworthy to keep it. Try a lovely dinner with good food followed by a sensual massage. Natural scents or herbal aromas like sage, lemon, or the scent of clean linens would be good aroma to set the mood. Foreplay is a must with this sign so try to set off the imagination. Don’t be critical it’s a major turn off to them when you are.
CAPRICORN: There’s a deep sense of security with this sign. And let’s admit it, sometimes security is very appealing. They are a lusty sign but they have the self discipline to appear cool and collective on the outside. Break that exterior and watch the flood gates open. A word of warning: once you’ve open the door it’s going to be hard to close it again. If Capricorn has a good idea of what ground they are standing on expect them to move forward. Their very loyal and will remain faithful once a commitment is made. Prove unfaithful to them and jealousy will come out in a ‘hell hath no fury’ kind of way.
Women: This might take a while because she needs wooing and does not care for someone who is too eager. It’s important to coax her and getting her ready might be something that could take a bit of time. There’s a love of textures so it’s a plus to have luxurious materials like fur, ivory satin or leather. She’ll look good in and on all of it.
Men: This man likes the classy women who follow the old saying ‘lady in the parlor vixen in the bedroom’. They won’t make the first move until they are almost 100 percent sure of the success. This is mostly due to the fact that in their opinion if you stir the pot something now has to happen.
Lover’s Bonus: They like to know what’s coming so any type of structured sex play is always a good option. Jokes and laughter before getting serious is another way to set the mood. They like the tension and release of sex so don’t be surprised if they just jump right into it. Incenses like sage, sandalwood or jasmine to help simulate the senses and to set a sexy mood. Once they’re ready to go and you’ve told them you were too be prepared for some sensual delights. A list of major turn off’s would include being indirect and irresponsible.
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